{"id":2046,"date":"2024-09-27T17:03:39","date_gmt":"2024-09-27T11:33:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/?p=2046"},"modified":"2024-09-30T17:10:02","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T11:40:02","slug":"what-should-i-avoid-when-connecting-with-alumni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/what-should-i-avoid-when-connecting-with-alumni\/","title":{"rendered":"What should I avoid when connecting with alumni?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When connecting with alumni, avoid these common pitfalls:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Being Unprepared<\/strong> <br>Don&#8217;t reach out without researching about the alumnus \/ alumna or having clear objectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Asking for a Job Directly<\/strong> <br>Avoid immediately asking for employment. Focus on building a relationship first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Overstepping Boundaries<\/strong> <br>Respect their time and privacy. Don&#8217;t be overly familiar or pushy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Neglecting to Follow Up<\/strong> <br>Failing to send a thank-you note or follow up as promised can leave a poor impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>One-Sided Interactions<\/strong> <br>Avoid only taking advice without offering anything in return. Look for ways to add value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inconsistent Communication<\/strong><br>Don&#8217;t reach out only when you need something. Maintain periodic, meaningful contact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ignoring Their Advice<\/strong><br>If you ask for guidance, show that you&#8217;ve considered or acted on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sharing Confidential Information<\/strong><br>Be discreet about personal or professional information they share with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Being Unprofessional<\/strong><br>Maintain a professional demeanor in all interactions, including on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Misrepresenting Yourself<\/strong><br>Always be honest about your background, experiences, and career goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Forgetting to Network Horizontally<\/strong><br>Don&#8217;t focus solely on senior alumni. Peers can also provide valuable connections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Failing to Reciprocate<\/strong><br>If they introduce you to their contacts, be willing to do the same when appropriate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, the goal is to build genuine, mutually beneficial professional relationships. Approach alumni connections with respect, gratitude, and a willingness to contribute to the relationship over time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When connecting with alumni, avoid these common pitfalls: Being Unprepared Don&#8217;t reach out without researching about the alumnus \/ alumna or having clear objectives. Asking for a Job Directly Avoid immediately asking for employment. Focus on building a relationship first. Overstepping Boundaries Respect their time and privacy. Don&#8217;t be overly familiar or pushy. Neglecting to &#8230; <a title=\"What should I avoid when connecting with alumni?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/what-should-i-avoid-when-connecting-with-alumni\/\" aria-label=\"More on What should I avoid when connecting with alumni?\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[95],"class_list":["post-2046","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-alumni-academy","tag-faqs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2046","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2046"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2046\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2048,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2046\/revisions\/2048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vaave.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}